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Would you take your cheating spouse back?

27/11/2012 28361 Views 30 Posts Reply to Discussion Posted by suzeeb

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Posted by Editor

Sydney, Australia, 21/09/2010

Balthazar Getty's wife has broken her silence on why she took him back after his affair with Sienna Miller, so we want to know: would you take your cheating spouse back? Would 4 kids and 10 years of marriage make a difference?

Posted by redpolly66

Rosebery,NSW, 22/09/2010

Simply NO

Posted by pamella

Waurn Ponds,VIC, 23/09/2010

absolutely not

Posted by monsta_99

Sydney, NSW, Australia, 23/09/2010

Seriously how could you if your husband has been on the front page of magazines globally with his topless, blonde, young skinny girlfriend?

I understand she must really love him, but will he really be able to be trusted ever again? Not in my book!

Should have thought of the damage to his family and his wife before he started shagging Sienna Miller!

Posted by Bluebird

Australia, 26/09/2010

I don't know I think it is hard to say! It depends how long he was cheating for, who it was with, not sure. How could you ever trust him again??

Posted by maxbliss

adelaide, 26/09/2010

Definately not! It wouldn't be you that he was thinking about when he crossed that line....selfish, calculating and pre-meditated infidelity
On reviewing this again, Balthazar was found out by the paparazzi=very publicly!!!!
How many men cheat and continue to, without admitting it or even being found out by others-It does make you wonder though

....and from the article of this story I said as follows-Rosetta clearly wasn't who he was thinking about when he was with Sienna...she was second best actually!
Why,why,why would you take a cheat and sleaze-bag back...it's happened and he wants to make a go of their marriage again...c'mon wake up Rosetta
Once a cheat, always a cheat

Posted by raez

Derrimut, Vic, 04/10/2010

Personally I believe it would depend on the circumstances, and the relationship you had with your spouse. It's not really a black and white question to be answered with a clear cut yes or no!

Posted by sumaya

wyoming,NSW, 11/10/2010

NO. How could you? Once the trust has been lost, that's it for me.

Posted by foxnsox

Sydney, 11/10/2010

I agree with raez. It totally depends on the circumstances.

However, the cheater should count his/her lucky stars for getting a second chance. It's a rare relationship that could get through this kind of thing once, let alone twice.

I think most people would say that they could never take back a cheating spouse because they have not been in that situation. But when it's happening to you, could you seriously turn your back on your husband if they are truly remorseful?

Posted by sonja

New South Wales, 13/10/2010

i won't take her back. She must learn the response for what she do. i can't forgive cheating and betray

Posted by kel412

eschol park,NSW, 19/10/2010

Never would I take back a cheater

Posted by luci321

Darlinghurst,NSW, 29/10/2010

An affair, absolutely no chance! But a kiss- well yes I would like the think so... No one is perfect and sometimes it's worth forgiving to let yourself be happy...

Posted by violets

East Maitland nsw, 04/11/2010

I took mine back, the only good thing that came out of doing so was my beautiful son. Otherwise I'd have to say a huge mistake. i finally left him It can never be the same for some people.

Posted by Lazydobes

Plainland,QLD, 04/11/2010

No, not ever. For me it's very much a case of once bitten, twice shy.

Posted by julziehere

PAKENHAM,VIC, 15/11/2010

sometimes you dont truly know what you've got until its gone.. and at te end of te day EVERY guy does it n matter how much they tell you they dont - its just best not to ever think about it. having said that i have not taken back someone i have known to actually cheat. but now that im married n have a kid to the same man, if anything ever did happen i would definately take him back, as long as all family and friends didnt know.. with it being strike 1 - i would never tell him this though.
but if it had been published through the media then no it would be too embarrassing..

Posted by trentan

Greenfields,WA, 16/11/2010

It all depends if the woman can get past it and love her husband again or if she is just going to keep on punishing him and living a toxic life. Its definately not a black and white question for some people me I would simply amputate it so it couldnt happen again.

Posted by maxbliss

adelaide, 16/11/2010

ummm Trentan, do you mean 'amputate it' with respect to the r/ship or his appendage....lol

Posted by DBrewin

New South Wales, 23/11/2010

Would I. No. But in the case of balthazar's wife, I'd read quite a few times and from her that they had already reached an agreement on a trial seperation before he was seeing Sienna. I think the 'young, hot, blonde' description of his lover and the public dislike of Sienna Miller is what drew sympathy to the wife. Okay, they hadn't divorced yet and it would be a horrible thing to go have to sit back and be scrutinised by The media public alike. It was definately a betrayal. But it wasn't cheating. Not in the way I percieve cheating.

Posted by Flutterby

Aspendale,VIC, 11/12/2010

A very tough questions, 6 months ago we supported a couple who had been together for 25yrs married for 8. Both shared they were having an affair and upon doing so asked for our help. We suggested couples therapy and took to it like strawberries to champagne.

They discovered many likes and dislikes in their relationship and worked together to learn how to communicate better. Their relationship is healthier and happier.

From a personal point of view as difficult as the thought of your partners infidelity, I would have to say I would divorce my emotions and truly listen with reason as to how this act came about and make the decision from there.

For anyone who has suffered time is your friend add supportive friends and the outcome will always be positive.

Blessings....

Posted by jadziadax

Gold Coast, 03/04/2011

I say once they cheat it proves they are capable of it and will most likely do it again. I never cheated in my marriage because I have strong morals. So they either are one or the other. A cheater or not. Never take them back.

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