Have you heard of couples who start arguing and disagreeing on what religion they would bring their children up or that she should become Jewish and so on? Before you tie the knot you should address sensitive issues such as religion.
How do you do it? Firstly when you get engaged you should look as yourselves as a couple and that you are becoming a family. You should also discuss things like, how far you want each others family involved in certain issues, money managing and child discipline and so on. We have a list of Must Discuss issues if you believe you are heading into a long-term commitment. Try to be as honest and understanding about these as you can when you sit down to do it.
Must Discuss Issues
- Money and Work.
- Values and Lifestyle.
- Careers and Goals.
- Families, parents and children.
- Problem solving and decision-making.