Get your booty ready for business. Right now, there’s a whole new world of couples anal play waiting for you to explore. If you’re not sure where to start, don’t worry. Here are 10 of the best anal toys for couples that will help make your experience enjoyable and safe. From butt plugs to vibrators, there’s something for everyone on this list. So whether you want to try something new with your partner or give them an amazing gift, read on for the hottest couples anal toys around.
Not too long ago, the very idea of discussing putting anything anywhere near our butts was absolutely out of the question.
Whether it was a boyfriend’s penis, fingers, tongue, or even a sex toy – information and resources on anal play were about as easy to stumble upon as Kim Kardashian in the same room as Taylor Swift.
Anal sex has always carried with it a certain taboo, which, try as it might, it just can’t seem to shake. Women are terrified it’s going to hurt, and men are turned off by the idea because they think it’s emasculating. This could be because some people tend to have less-than-lovely first experiences with any anal action (hint: there’s no such thing as too much lube).
Thankfully though, the past few years have seen a drastic turnaround in our social attitude toward sex, and, as a result, resources now abound for dipping your toe into the water of just about any kink you can think of—including, what’s arguably become the most discussed sex trend of the past year: Anal.
So if you and your partner are planning on making a foray into anal play, read on and take notes. These sex toys have been specifically designed to help you ease into the titillating new territory of anal, so you needn’t be intimidated (though if you’ve got questions about what happens before, after and during anal, you should definitely read our article answering all your anal sex questions). Whichever toy you go for, you’ll get the best results if you ensure you’re clean, use a bordering-on-excessive amount of lube, start small, take it slow, and definitely clean up afterward, toys and all.
The Lovehoney Get Started Beginner’s Anal Kit was designed specifically for couples new to anal play. It includes four beginner-friendly anal toys, perfect for getting to know each other’s backsides in a new and intimate way. Whether you’re just starting out or looking for something different, this kit is sure to get you excited about exploring anal pleasure—without the overwhelm of choosing what toys suit you best.
Think of it as a beginner’s taste test for couples’ anal toys.
Looking for a new way to spice up your anal play? Then check out our Adam & Eve Vibrating Bumpy Bead Set! These beads feature a unique design with raised bumps for extra stimulation. The powerful vibrations will thrill you with every movement. Plus, the easy-to-use controller puts you in charge of the fun. Try out all six vibration speeds and patterns to find your perfect pleasure combination. Made from durable ABS plastic, these beads are one of the best anal toys for him and her.
The Lovehoney Pure Pleasure Sensual Glass Butt Plug is the perfect way to add new excitement to your sex life. Made with durable and sturdy glass, this plug is perfect for beginners and experienced players alike. The flared base ensures safe and easy removal.
This luxurious glass plug is the perfect anal toy for couples to upgrade their pleasure during sex. It gently applies pressure to the internal erogenous zones and the glass means it is perfect for couples who want to engage in temperature play. Make the glass warm by submerging in warm water, or cool it down in the fridge before getting down to some sexy bum fun.
Who said couples anal toys were just for her? Men can also enjoy the pleasure that comes with adding an anal toy to the mix. Looking to explore the prostate? This kit is perfect for beginners to anal toys. It includes everything you need to get started, including a vibrating prostate stimulator and anal beads. With its sleek design and powerful vibrations, the stimulator is sure to give him an amazing orgasm. The beads are made from premium silicone and feature a retrieval cord for easy removal.
This exquisite all-in-one glass dildo and flogger is sexy, sensual and a little saucy. The suede fronds deliver a gentle tickle or a firm sting, depending on the strength of the whip, and the attached glass dildo is perfect for massaging on internal or external pleasure points. Capable of inflicting pleasure or pain, it really is the best of both worlds.
Heat it up (or pop it in the freezer) for an added level of temperature play, and you’ve got one of the best couples anal toys around.
Have twice the fun with Lovehoney’s Double Fun Beaded Vibrating Double Penetrator. This versatile strap-on allows for simultaneous vaginal and anal penetration, giving you a whole new level of excitement during playtime. With its comfortable fit and easy-to-use design, this double penetrator is perfect for beginners to using couples anal toys. You will feel fuller than ever with this double penetrator, including cock ring, a beaded anal penetrator, and a vibrating stimulator. It really is a toy that comes with everything. Sex may never be the same for you again…
Firm-yet-flexible, this anal prober is designed to contour to the natural curve of your body. Start with the smallest bead and ease your way with the rest, then gently pull out as you approach climax for a truly explosive result.
8. HER Anal Kit
Ready to start exploring the pleasures of anal play as a couple? This complete kit has everything you need to get started using anal toys on either partner, including a beginner’s guide. The soft, silicone probes are perfect for gradual insertion, and the bullet vibe provides pinpoint stimulation. With four toys to choose from, you’re sure to find the perfect fit. Add a little lube and prepare for an unforgettable experience!
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Made with smooth, body-safe silicone, this vibrating butt plug is the perfect first couples anal toy to add to your repertoire. It features a flared base (to avoid any emergency room incidents!) and a gentle curve for easy insertion. The powerful bullet vibrator sends vibrations directly to your prostate or G-spot, delivering mind-blowing pleasure for both him and her.
Take the anal play one step further with these vibrating anal beads. Flexible and perfect for use during foreplay, sex, masturbation, and mutual masturbation, the vibrations will help ensure aaaall the right spots are attended to. Oh la la.
If you’ve been looking for a way to bring some excitement into your bedroom, anal toys can be a great foray into anal play together. As we discussed in this article, there are plenty of couples’ anal toys that can help explore new avenues during sex or foreplay – and they’re also great even your partner is hesitant about the idea.
Let us know: What’s your favorite anal toy to use as a couple?
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