(Better) Sex and the Single Girl

February 10, 2014

Let’s face it, just because you’re single does not mean your sex life should be on hiatus. This is the time to get in tune with your body, learn some new tricks and what turns you on. Better sex is right around the corner!

1. Treat yourself to a new toy
The best way to improve your sex life as a solo lady is to invest in a collection of trusted sex toys. Look at some of our favourite new sex toys, including the Leaf. The unique design of this toy is conveniently curved, evoking a strong sensation that will really rock your world. Plus, it’s environmentally-friendly!

Your solo sessions are time to explore what kind of stimulation you like best: soft and slow, hard and fast…Some women go gaga over clitoral stimulation, while others prefer pressure on the G-spot – or both sensations!

2. Watch something frisky
Porn for women is becoming more and more popular. Many women are also becoming more concerned with ethics in pornography, turning to options that avoid exploiting women for the benefit of men. In truth, there are many videos on the market that showcase healthy sexuality.

3. Fall in love with yourself
As cheesy as it may sound, learning to love your own body is your ticket to sexual freedom. Stop targeting your problem areas and focus on all the beauty your body possesses. Put an end to those inhibitions that keep you from truly enjoying yourself during sex – and watch your general confidence bloom.

4. Tighten up
Did you know that there are exercises you can do to improve your sex life? You’ve probably heard of Kegel exercises, which support the bladder and uterus, but also tighten the walls of the vagina. The tighter the walls of the vagina, the deeper they can contract. This leads to deeply-satisfying orgasms.

You can do Kegel exercises anywhere, just by tightening and holding for 10 seconds, then releasing and repeating. Or you can try it while doing plies. To perform this exercise, simply stand with your feet wide apart, toes pointed outwards. Bend your knees wide, tighten, and push back to starting position.General strength training has its own benefits. Lifting weights increases testosterone, a hormone responsible for your sex drive.

5. Learn some new moves
Let’s be honest – one-night stands are a great opportunity to practice a few new moves geared towards improving your orgasm. The standard moves – missionary and doggy style – can only do so much.One of the best ways to get that intense G-spot sensation is to rest your ankles on your partner’s shoulders. The deep penetration is ideal for female orgasm, especially if you encourage your partner to play with your other erogenous zones.

Fess up: what is your secret single behaviour? Tell us in the comments!

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