If you’re giving out ‘I’m rubbish’ signals, who’s going to want to take you out on a date
? Okay imagine walking into a clothes shop and the assistant saying to you, “Yes, get that dress it makes you look fat and the other great thing about it is that it is made out of really bad fabric. You will probably get one wear out of it.”Now your not going to buy that dress and you would probably hand the dress straight back to the shop assistant and walk out feeling really fat and ugly. Now here’s the point to my ramblings. A lot of us out there sell ourselves in the same way as that mean shop girl, and we still wonder why we are single? have you said things like this before:
“I’m too fat”
“I’m definitely not sexy”
“What would he see in me?’
You have to remember if you think all those things why would someone you like fall for you? If you don’t think you’re particularly interesting, then why should they? But the most dangerous thought of all – “why should he want to be with me?” – is guaranteed to get you the answer, “you’re right, why should he?”
Before you expect to fall in love you have to love everything about yourself. Get confident and proud. Look in the mirror every morning and tell your face you are the most important person in the world. I can guarantee the phone will not stop ringing!!