I know I can’t speak for every woman out there, but it’s pretty safe to say that most of us love to shop. For some reason, a new dress or handbag makes us feel as good as getting our nails done or trying some new lipstick. I guess you could say we like to try different things and reinvent ourselves.
It has always been like that, but recent studies have found that social media has changed our shopping habits and actually makes us buy even more and also shop more frequently. The reason? We don’t want to be seen in the same outfit twice on Instagram and co.
It sounds extremely superficial and kind of ridiculous, but think about it: Have you honestly never changed an outfit because you remembered that your friends or family have already seen you in it?
Now replace friends or family with all the people that follow you on social media and you have a much larger group looking at you. So if you have a habit of documenting your life with the help of selfies and status updates, chances are you want to portray a glammed-up version of your life that includes a closet full of outfits you only wear once.
But it’s not just about the fear of re-wearing clothes; social media bombards us with pretty pictures of the hottest trends and must-haves every single day, which increases our need for new things and changes our shopping behavior. This is not just limited to fashion, but also applies to homewear, make up and food.
In a survey by British fashion retailer TK Maxx, 25 per cent of people admitted to being influenced by comments and likes they received on social media. Positive comments on a new outfit thereby reinforce our urge to buy more.
It’s quite remarkable how important social media has become in the past few years. It has gone from a means of communication to a crucial marketing tool for brands and individuals alike, but the fact that we tend to buy more because of social media is really just a new version of an old problem: we care too much about what other people think. Always have, always will.
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Keep the kids amused this summer by throwing a small party with their friends at home or the local park. If you’re stuck on party ideas or themes, try a few of our favourites below which are ideal during the summer.
Water balloon stations
Isn’t this every kids fantasy? An entire box filled with a bunch of water bombs for the party. Keep them out of direct sunlight since the suns rays can pierce through and pop the balloons before the party.
Lucky there are handy tools that can help to fill up to 100 balloons per minute!
Fill a few empty bottles with water, then place a ping pong ball over the top. Guests will have to shoot their water gun directly at the ball – first to do this wins a prize!
Get crafty and make your own life-size jenga game using 2×4 pieces of wood. This is easy enough to carve at home and the kids will never tire of it.
Take a classic game of twister to the next level with food colouring! Simply colour small portions of the grass to emulate a Twister board. Plus, it won’t ruin the grass!
Decorate the pool with waterbombs, plastic swans and noodles ready for the party. It will make any pool like fun and inviting for all guests.
Chop up an extra noodle to make these stunning flowers which will also float in the pool! Hang them from the doors, along the windows, or from the ceiling as wind chimes.
Don’t forget a sunscreen station where guests can re-apply and stay out of the sun for a while. Their parents will certainly be thanking you for this helpful idea at the end of the party.
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Who doesn’t love sipping on a super-cool cocktail in the balmy summer weather? Spruce up your skills and try these delicious beverages which are sure to be a hit at any summer get-together.
There’s nothing more summery than a cool mojito, especially since it tastes so crisp and fresh. Use fresh mint straight from the garden for that authentic taste – yum!
Enjoy a fruity bellini made with crushed ice and frozen strawberries for extra flavour. Keep a pack in the fridge and don’t forget to mix and match with blueberries and raspberries for a truly unique taste.
Round up all your favourite fruits with a pitcher of Pimms for the entire party. This is the perfect drink to share since it’s so tasty!
Bring a new twist to a classic margarita by incorporating some seasonal summer cocktails into the mix. Our favourite has to be watermelon since it’s cool and fresh on a hot day.
Long Island Ice Tea
Who doesn’t love the taste of a Long Island? Make this one into a punch for the entire party to enjoy and make sure to finish off with a glazed cherry.
Enjoy an ice-cold Mimosa which is perfect for those who prefer something light and crisp to begin the evening.
A delicious Piña Colada is a summertime staple since it combines a fruity pineapple taste with a dash of dry rum.
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Gather up your girlfriends and plan a bachelorette night filled with laughter, drinks and of course, some modern games for the bride-to-be. Our tips below are perfect if you’re planning an at-home party or pre-drinks before you head out and dance the night away!
If you’re planning this party at home, cocktails are a must-have. Rosé, prosecco and other light, summer wines can serve as basis for your favourite cocktails. Fresh berries can also serve as a tasty garnish for sangria and other cocktail drinks.
Decorate your favourite balloons in glitter, lace and ribbons for a truly magical party. All you need to do is coat them in glue, then dip into some sparkly gold or silver glitter.
A champagne and sweets table is the best way to stay organised for any bachelorette party. Keep it looking modern with glitter and confetti as decoration.
Skip the same-old banners for ones that you can purchase off Etsy or even make yourself! This one is perfect for the bride who loves Beyoncé.
Decorate the table with white tulle veil, a bridal sash and other fun bride-to-be ornaments for the party. They’re also a fun way to get into the spirit of the wedding!
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Planning a bridal shower for a relative or friend with no idea where to begin? Start with the party decor, which will leave the bride-to-be feeling excited for the big day! From the invitations to the decorations, SHESAID has you covered for the bridal shower.
Rather than using the same-old vase, get creative with these cute and quirky mugs. Trim down the flowers and place them in the middle of the table for everyone to see.
Who can resist a few sugary treats? Not us! Decorate the sweets table with vintage-looking vases, bowls and cupcake trays.
Don’t forget the balloons if you’re hoping to make a big statement for family and friends. Stick to a colour theme and make sure it’s cohesive throughout the entire shower.
Whip-up this stunning bridal cake made from individual cupcakes, which all your guests can enjoy.
To really personalise your wedding, why not draw up a timeline of how the bride and groom met. This is a fantastic way to make the bridal shower feel more homely.
Mimosa bars are so popular at bridal showers because they’re a great way to enjoy a guilt-free cocktail. Gather today a few different fruit juices, chill the champagne, then let your guests help themselves!
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Since your wedding day is all about sharing the love with friends and family, get creative and personalise everything from your veil to the placement cards, with a touch of your own personality. If you need a little extra inspiration, we have nine of our favourite picks below.
Give your guests something sweet to take home, with a cute note or card along with it!
If your nuptials are taking place outdoors, these cute little signs are the perfect way to keep your guests on track.
His and hers sneakers are another great way to add a personal touch to the wedding photos without doing the same old standard photos.
How cool is this one! Give a paper and pen to each guest as they are seated so that they can give their advice and well wishes throughout the night. Also, they would be so funny to read the next morning.
Treat yourselves to a super-cute memento which will keep the day sacred forever. These stunning pieces of cutlery are perfect for enjoying that first piece of cake as husband and wife.
Who doesn’t have a bit of cold feet on their wedding day? This is a funny way of keeping the day light-hearted!
Decorate the chairs of both the bride and groom in these lovely cushions. They are the perfect way to add a personal touch to the wedding photos.
Add a monogram to your veil, which your husband is sure to love and will remain timeless!
Create your own signature cocktail which will then be served to guests during the reception.
Images via So Feminine, Etsy, The Berry, Bridal Guide, Southern Weddings
Do you prefer the finer things in life? If you and your friends love nothing more than a nice sophisticated evening, there are ways you can create a perfect stylish party atmosphere. Whether you’re planning a Halloween, Thanksgiving or Christmas themed party, it doesn’t have to be tacky. You can invest in sophisticated costumes from top companies such as Morph Costumes. There are also plenty of stylish décor ideas you can make use of. Below you’ll find some of the best tips to get you started.
Focus on the lighting
The lighting is one of the main things that set the scene for your party. There are a wide variety of lighting available from novelty to luxury. When you’re looking to create a stylish, elegant theme, you ideally want to focus on soft lighting. Think candles, light dimmers and beautiful chandeliers. Wall mounted candle lamps are a fantastic addition to any sophisticated party. They are also perfect for Halloween style parties where dim lighting is essential.
Prime Location has an excellent guide on your modern, stylish lighting options.
Creating a stylish Halloween party atmosphere
You may think it’s difficult to plan a stylish Halloween party, but there’s one simple tip that will change that. Instead of focusing on the bright neon pumpkins, opt for a dark gothic theme. Gothic style tableware is an absolute must. Intricate detailed goblets and long white candle centrepieces work particularly well.
Creating a stylish Thanksgiving party atmosphere
Thanksgiving is a time to get together with friends and family. If you’re looking for a more elegant, stylish atmosphere then aim to make it cosy. As featured on Family Holiday, real pumpkins filled with lighting and fall leaves can make an excellent decoration. Candles in fall style vases are also a great idea. Focus on burnt orange colours and warm browns for the best effect. Fake fruit and twigs are also great to use as decorations.
Creating a stylish Christmas party atmosphere
Forget novelty Christmas songs, mistletoe and singing Santa’s if you want to create a stylish party atmosphere! Christmas is one of the easiest occasions to create a stylish party ambience. Focus on deep red and green décor. If you look online you’ll be able to find stylish, elegant garlands. The ones with pine cones, red bows and attached white lights are particularly elegant and would look great above an open fireplace. This is another occasion where candles will also work well.
A stylish atmosphere can be achieved by following just a few simple tips. These include:
- Don’t clutter up the room with too much décor
- Provide comfortable seating
- Avoid anything that has a novelty theme
- Focus on dim lighting
You can find all kinds of ideas online if you’re struggling for information. Of course, once you’ve got your home kitted out, you then need to focus on your outfit. It is possible to have a stylish costume party. Providing you avoid everything to do with tacky, novelty decorations you should easily be able to create a more sophisticated ambience.
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By Sophie Davidson
A good cocktail is hard to come by, but finding a bar which isn’t crowded at 5pm is another hassle in itself. We are sharing the love and shouting out some of our favourite hidden or underground bars in the Sydney CBD and surrounding suburbs that you must visit… If you can find them, that is!
Basement 1/488 George Street Sydney
Technically this bar is quite well known since it’s part of the Hilton Hotel, but you do have to take a lift downstairs to find it. The heritage listed bar dates back to 1893 and features delicious cocktails and live music.
The Wild Rover
75 Campbell Street Surry Hills
The Wild Rover gives an entirely different meaning to a hidden bar – just make sure you keep your eyes peeled! The security guards at the front of two large wooden doors will allow you to enter this 2-storey bar that’s ideal for a cocktail, or two. Go straight for the cocktail list and ask for a Pash and Dash.
61 York Street Sydney
Blink and you might miss the sewing machine which is a dead giveaway for this stunning underground bar. Go through the wooden saloon doors and down the stairs to be led to a world of smokey cocktails and yummy food. The Smoking Rocket is a must-have if you’re looking for a signature cocktail, with whiskey, tequila, and a slice of chilli for an extra kick of flavour.
Eau de Vie
229 Darlinghurst Road, Darlinghurst
While Eau de Vie technically doesn’t have any signs, it’s always packed to the brim with patrons waiting for one of the best cocktails in Australia. We’re not kidding. Ask for the Noble Experiment which is made with nitrogen, or a fruity Yuzu Mule with tequila instead of vodka. You’ll thank us later!
The Baxter Inn
Basement 152-156 Clarence Street Sydney
Voted as one of Sydney’s best bars (for real) this place is known for it’s smokey scotches and port wines. Situated in a back alleyway and under 2 flights of stairs, the 1950’s music is welcoming and the bartenders basically all sport a cool moustache.
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Are you a bridesmaid or maid-of-honour planning your best friends hens party? Tough job! Planning a hens party might seem a little difficult at first, especially if you’re not sure about going out, staying in, or combining the best of both worlds for a truly unforgettable night.
Rather than making your evening feel like another sequel of The Hangover, try these fool-proof ideas which are sure to be loved by every bride-to-be.
Not the permanent kind! Try these stick-on tattoos if you’re planning a night of dinner and drinks – just in case someone from the bridal party gets lost throughout the evening. You can even personalise them, but really, how cute are they?!
If you’re staying in for the evening, a good set of games is ideal to keep everybody interested. Some of the most popular hens night games include:
- Truth or dare: Pretty self-explanatory, right?
- Mr and Mrs quiz: Ask each couple a set of questions to see how well they know each other.
- Pass the parcel: A modern take on a traditional game, but also with a few twists. Some lingerie, mini bottles of alcohol and even chocolates are a great way to get the party started.
- Pinata: Fill your favourite pinata goodies such as miniature drinks, chocolates and even lollies for the night.
A traditional game of beer pong but with a twist. The bride must shoot the ball into one of the bra’s on the wall, then she must drink! A hilarious way to get everyone involved and bonding throughout the night.
Brighten up the party space with some fun and cheeky decorations – which the bride is sure to love, of course.
Big, bright balloons are an inexpensive way to decorate any space (perhaps spelling out her name, or just bride), banners, and even cute table settings as well.
You can’t have all this fun without some pictures to show for it? Create a fun hashtag for your social media accounts, this way all the guests can check up on the photos as they’re taken! Make sure your profile is public otherwise they won’t show up on the feed.
Images via Etsy, Flickr, Hens Party Superstore
Are you a Sydney local who fancies a drink (or two) after a long day at the office?
Look no further! We have tracked down some of the cities best cocktail bars to unwind at with an after-work beverage, and all of which you can really let your hair down until it’s time to do it all over again.
The Baxter Inn
Where: Basement, 152-156 Clarence Street, Sydney
We recommend: Whiskey and Fresh Apple Juice
Often hailed as one of the best cocktail bars in the entire city, there is no way you can be disappointed with a statement like that. While the focus is on whiskey and wine, the bartenders specialise in all kinds of cocktails and the 1950s music is sure to get you in the party mood – that is, if you can find the underground bar.
Eau de vie
Where: 229 Darlinghurst Road, Darlinghurst
We recommend: The Noble Experiment
Located in the bustling suburb of Darlinghurst, Eau de Vie serves up some of the most interesting cocktails in the entire city. There’s no chance of ever getting bored in this establishment, just take a look and see how your cocktails are made!
Where: 123 Victoria Street, Potts Point
We recommend: Air France
Although The Butler is a relatively new bar located just east of the city centre, it deserves a visit for more than just its views of the Royal Botanical Gardens. With a long list of cocktails, which are sure to land you Instagram’s popular feed, they are accompanied by a tasty cuisine of modern Australian food.
Where: 61 York Street, Sydney
We recommend: The Smokey Rocket
If you’re ever working near Wynyard, then Stitch Bar is the place to be. With a broad range of cocktails on offer, there is bound to be something you like. Definitely try The Smoking Rocket if you love a gentle fusion of whiskey and tequila with a pinch of lime and chilli.
Gazebo Wine Garden
Where: 2 Elizabeth Bay Road, Elizabeth Bay
We recommend: Giggly Rose
You’ve probably made it to the Winery in Surry Hills before, but nothing beats the charm that is Gazebo Wine Bar. If the French garden isn’t enough to lure you in, then the cocktails will.
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Ever wondered what the story is behind some of Australia’s favourite cider?
SHESAID recently chatted with Rich Coombes of Batlow Cider to find out some of their delicious new flavours, how the cider is actually created, and some sweet collaborations just around the corner.
Tell us, how did Batlow Cider get started?
Batlow Cider was born on a sunny Sunday arvo having a few (as many a great idea is born!). We were drinking imported brands of cider asking ourselves why we couldn’t readily find great local cider made from top quality apples and the best cider-making practices.
It’s a partnership between Sam, myself and Batlow Apples, growers of Australia’s Favourite Apples in the Snowy Mountains. We approached them with the idea and they were excited about it. The rest is history!
How important is it to use local, homegrown produce in your ciders?
It’s super important, we only use Batlow Apples and locally grown pears in our cider production. What surprised us when we started out was the lack of companies in Australia doing this. It makes total sense, our farmers and growers are responsible for some of the best produce in the world, so not only are we supporting local businesses but we’re using the best available inputs.
What are some of the best dishes to complement your cider?
One of our favourites is a whole roast suckling pig (delicious and the experience and process of the spit is a sure crowd pleaser).
Any white meats such as chicken and a variety of seafood partner well with cider. The sweetness and acidity balance in our cider partners well with these meats. 4 Fourteen in Sydney has a great dish steaming their mussels in our cider and that’s absolutely delicious too. It’s also suitable for vegetarians and vegans, and cider like ours is gluten free for those intolerant.
For those of us who don’t know, how does the cider process actually work?
Cider production is very similar to wine, we actually do our cider production at a winery. The production methods vary from producer to producer: craft producers like us (Batlow Cider) crush fresh fruit (mainly apples) add a specific cultured yeast and then transform the apple juice into alcoholic cider. It’s very simple.
The mass market brands will generally use apple concentrates that come in a syrup like format (mainly from China), add water then ferment that as their base juice. That’s taking shortcuts and usually driven by financial motivations, whereas as we only use fresh fruit. Our motivation is to produce a top quality product and pay respect to the apples we use!
Do you have anything special coming up for winter 2015?
Mulled cider has worked very well for us over the years, so that’ll be happening again this year with some tweaks on past years. We’ve just done a collaboration beer with a local craft brewer using apple juice in the ferment and have some other plans that you’ll have to watch out for!
Where are some of the best places our readers can shop the new collection of ciders?
Online at www.beerbud.com.au or www.ciderinsider.com.au and many independent bottle shops with a craft focus. Our major products are available more widely – Batlow Premium Cider in selected BWS outlets and Batlow Cloudy Cider in Dan Murphys and both are available in selected independent stores nationally.
The pressure for couples to have a unique, one of a kind wedding can frustrate even the most chilled out brides and grooms. While it may seem impossible to find a truly original wedding idea, there are still many ways you can personalize key elements of your special day. Here are a few simple ways to add a personal touch to your wedding day:
Transform an otherwise boring yet practical element of your reception décor by personalising your table numbers. Fun options include grouping each table as a destination you have both visited together that holds a special meaning to you; eg, table number 1 = Your first holiday together, table number 2 = Your first date location, table number 3 = your honeymoon destination. It’s a great way to spark discussion among your guests and adds a personal touch to your reception.
Sugared almonds can seem a little generic as favours, so break free from tradition and choose favours that reflect you as a couple. It could be miniature bottles of your favourite wine, scented candles that remind you of your favourite vacations, or even homemade treats that you made together. Personalised favours are a great way to leave a lasting impression on your guests once the wedding is over.
Bespoke wedding bands
A great way to celebrate your engagement is to share the unforgettable experience of designing your wedding bands together. Artisanal jeweller, Michael Fallah (also known as Mick the jeweller), gives couples the opportunity to visit his workshop in Sydney to watch him melt down the yellow, rose or white gold he will be using for their wedding rings in person. It’s a great chance for couples to bring in their wedding photographer or videographer to capture the once in a lifetime experience to include in their wedding album and video.
Arrange with your caterer to incorporate a family dish or signature drink into the reception and then give out the recipe along with your favours. A great way to involve your family is to use your bridal shower as an opportunity to request dessert recipes from your relatives and surprise them at the reception with a dessert buffet featuring their delicious recipes.
Create a simple, but unique hashtag that makes it easy for your guests to upload any photos they take on the day. It’s a nice way to encourage guests to share their favourite photos, while also making it easy for you to track down all the photos. Make sure to include information about the #hashtag and any social media requests with invitations and programs so that you’re guests are aware.
So you got your new Iphone 6, you’ve installed all your apps, you’re ready to use it and you have sworn that this time you will not crack the screen. Rather than not taking it anywhere and refusing to let your friends use it, just get a protective case for your phone!
Luckily, the days of boring plastic covers are over, today’s phone cases are super stylish and can actually make your iPhone look better than without one! There are of course countless cases out there so we’ve done the hard research for you and came up with our 5 most stylish Iphone 6 cases.
1. Kate Spade
This beauty is the right choice for all fashionistas out there. It’s simple, elegant and a little bit cheeky at the same time thanks to the subtle “kiss and tell” on the back. The rose gold colour looks stunning and is oh-so-trendy.
For everyone loving bright colours and sweets, this Iphone 6 case with yummy-looking macarons printed on it is the right choice. But beware, you might get a craving for French sweets every time you look at it.
If you’re the preppy kind of girl who likes to wear polo shirts and play tennis, this sophisticated, yet sporty Society6 case will tick all your boxes.
This black, quilted leather case will transform your iPhone into an accessory as luxurious as a Chanel handbag. Goes especially well with a diamond ring.
We love this half transparent case with a metallic print that reminds us of liquid nail polish.
We want all of them! But which one is your favourite?
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There is no denying that making new friends in your 20s and 30s isn’t as easy as it once was in the schoolyard.
Nowadays, finding a solid friend who isn’t just an acquaintance seems more difficult since everyone has their own work and family commitments. If you want to change-up your group of friends, or simply looking to reconnect with some old ones, this is the guide for you.
Have a hobby
A very important quote which still sticks to this day is ‘Old habits don’t open new doors.’
Sticking to the same-old routine won’t help you find new friends, or build a connection with anyone new. If your hobby lies in sport, exercise, or even in a number of creative fields, it’s important to take a risk, and join a class.
Even if you’re feeling shy or too embarrassed to go alone, it’s always worth it in the end! Making friends with people who share the same hobbies as you, makes it so much easier to connect.
Reaching out to an old friend is always a good idea, especially if it’s been a number of years since your last meeting. The connection with old high-school friends will always be something you have in common (especially if you were the best of friends), and you can always arrange an impromptu mini-reunion with those who want to reconnect. It’s a great way to see where everyone is at, and could possibly lead to a life-long friendship.
Don’t be the type of friend who sits around at home waiting for people to make plans with you. More often than not, this won’t get you out of the house anytime soon. Text, call, and keep in touch with friends, and better yet, show them that you’re interested in meeting up again.
Put yourself out there
Whether it’s hanging out with the family, or meeting a friend-of-a-friend for a cup of coffee, be prepared to put yourself out there and do something new. Be willing to compromise on plans and try something new with an extended group of people. Grab their mobile number, and be sure to engage in texts which will keep you out of the house, and into new and exciting company.
Many forums, blogs, and message boards are filled with people who already have common interests as you. Just because you’re chatting through the internet, doesn’t mean that the friendship isn’t as genuine.
However if you do want to meet up, remember to stay safe and never send through any money to someone you don’t personally know. Anyone who truly values your friendship won’t expect anything in return.
Image via Divine Caroline
If you want some ideas for an upcoming hens’ party you’ve come to the right place! I’ve noticed most hens party ideas are location-based, but I’d like to cater for everyone. So regardless of where you live or the budget you have, I’ve got some fun hens party ideas for everyone.
The PJ party/sleepover
If the budget is super tight for everyone this one may sound boring but it’s actually a lot of fun especially if there’s a few of you. Ask everyone to bring along bedding, drinks and nibbles and turn it into a pajama party. Order take out, watch the latest chick flicks (or porn?), drink some champers, snap some photos and just enjoy time together.
To make it more like a hens’ party, hire a stripper, tarot reader or some sort of entertainment that will come to you, plus play some hens’ party games. There are heaps around. The main focus is to get together and have a great night in. No one has to drive or go anywhere so it makes for a fun, intimate night with the girls.
Tell the ladies to come in casual clothes and bring along makeup and a sexy outfit. Prepare some drinks and nibbles at someones house, crank the music and everyone can get ready together. There’s nothing like girl time and dress ups! Pre-book a limo and take it to a preferred location and have yourselves a photo shoot. If cost is an issue, ask someone handy with a camera to take the photos. Alternately search for a studio, tell them what you want and see if they will accommodate.
After your shoot, head out to dinner or hit the clubs. Starting with a photo shoot will give the bride-to-be some amazing memories and begin the night a little differently. Getting ready together will be a lot of fun plus it’s a great ice breaker for ladies who are unfamiliar with each other.
A day out with the girls
If sitting around drinking champers sounds a bit sedate why not book a limo and take the crowd to paintball, laser skirmish, bowling, a fishing charter, jet boat ride, river or dinner cruise, scenic flight, day spa, a guided tour of some description or what ever else is available where you live and within the budget.
This can done during the day or night, depending on the activity you select. Perhaps complete a daytime hens’ party with sleep over or night on the town. It doesn’t matter what you do as long as it’s fun, everyone enjoys themselves and the bride-to-be has an awesome experience.
Why let the fun stop after a few hours? Head away for the weekend, just the girls. If the budget is a little tight, go to a caravan park or hire a room or two for the weekend. This one can cost as little or as much as you like. Take some hens’ party games, hit the town, hire a limo or try some new restaurants.
If budget allows, book a bus that will fit the entire party and take you all to a holiday house at the beach or in the country. Go explore the region together, relax and get a bit or R&R at the same time. Organize a tour or combine some of the other options while you’re away. With so much time you’ll be able to pamper the bride-to-be, experience something new and have heaps of opportunity to giggle, drink champers and have fun.
A night interstate
It’s quite unlikely the bride would have done this before, so go explore the nightlife in another city. Hire a return limo to the airport and back and don’t bother taking luggage. Larger cities are open 24/7 so catch an evening flight and fly back in the morning. Providing you’re not too drunk to be let on board!
Explore the nightlife and the hens can be as silly as they like knowing they’re not likely to bump into anyone any time soon! You won’t need accommodation either if you feel like you’ll all be able to pull an all niter. This one is probably be for a younger crowd but don’t underestimate the older hens. They just might teach the young ones a thing or two!
Being so unique the bride-to-be most likely hasn’t done this before, so it will be something special. Plus, if friends or relatives interstate are attending the upcoming wedding, this is a perfect option to be able to include them providing you visit their city.
A weekend interstate
If one night interstate sounds too hectic or if you just want to prolong the fun, bring your bags, book accommodation and spend the entire weekend interstate. Set off Friday night so you can make the most of the weekend. When you get there you can either hit the town or have a quite night in. (Good luck with that one!)
Organise a tour the next day, followed by dinner and a night out on the town. Check out what the city has to offer and make bookings well in advance. You might find some fun ladies entertainment venues, a naught show, plus checkout what packages the local limo companies have to offer.
Make the most of the weekend away and go exploring, shopping or sightseeing the following day. Have dinner together and book a late flight home. Remember to take loads of photos for the bride-to-be to look back on the experience.
As you can see a hens party doesn’t have to be one night of alcohol, clubs, topples waiters and limo’s. There’s a world of experiences waiting out there so why not make the best of this awesome excuse to get the girls together and experience them!
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Motherhood brings surprising changes to all areas of our lives and friendships are no exception. Old friends are great, but if they don’t have children of their own, they will probably not understand you fascination with your baby’s crazy sleep patterns or your sudden urge to rush home in the middle of your coffee date because you’ve forgotten to bring a spare nappy. To thrive as a mum you need a community of people who understand you – other mums.
Where can you meet other mums?
- Ante-natal class
If you took an ante-natal course with other couples whose babies were due around the same dates, you already have people you can reach out to. Organise a get-together with all the babies or contact one-two people who you got along well with and invite them for a playdate.
- Mothers’ group
Formal mothers’ groups are usually set up by Early Childhood Centres or hospitals. They organise the first few meetings for you and you will have a facilitator who brings in a different topic each time that is of interest to new mums (and usually no one else). After the set number of meetings, it’s up to you to continue with the group or not.
There’re tons of online places where you can meet new mums – Facebook groups and parenting forums, just to mention a few. It can take a bit longer to find people who live in your area and organise face-to-face meetings, but it’s well worth it. I’ve found that the friendships that I’ve started online tend to be stronger, because I’m not meeting a complete stranger just on the basis that both of us are mums. We’ve already interacted and liked each other online, so it’s easier to hit it off in offline conversations.
- Local playgrounds
Most of us don’t take our baby to the playground until they’re at least able to sit on the swing, but once you do, you’ll notice the same parents and kids at the playground again and again, You’ll inevitably strike a conversation and it can progress from there.
Tips for making new mum friends
- Be authentic
There’s often a bit of competition going on between mums – who’s coping better, whose babies sleep through the night first and hit their milestones faster. Don’t get sucked into that! It’s easy to feel left out when everyone is sharing their great achievements and you’re feeling that your motherhood journey doesn’t measure up, but sharing how things really are can help in two ways. It can open the opportunity for others to share (who may feel intimidated otherwise) and it helps you find real friends who see the real you.
- Make the first move
When you find yourself enjoying a conversation with another mum, don’t just let her walk away. Ask when she’ll be coming again, get her phone number and maybe, even arrange your first playdate.
- Be selective
It doesn’t mean you have to get along with someone only because you have kids that are the same age. Focus your efforts on the people who have similar interests and a great personality, and you’ll soon have your network of amazing friends that you love.
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How would you like some professional hosting tips for your next social gathering? I’ve organized and hosted a bucket load of social events in my time, ranging from big community functions to small backyard barbecues. The planning guidelines are basically the same, so if you use the tips I’m about to share with you, regardless of the event, you’ll be able to enjoy yourself instead of being a slave to the festivities.
Now the first thing you need to organise is a plan. Jump on your computer, get a spreadsheet happening and brainstorm. There are some templates available online or make up your own. Do you want decorations, music or a bar area? What about the food? Jot down everything you want at your party, right down to the smallest detail like bins, serviettes and ice. Make sure you have extra columns to mark off when items are ordered, organised and completed. Print this out and remember to keep it updated as you go along. This will not only be a guide for you, but will also help you allocate jobs to willing volunteers.
Next is the shopping list. Shopping for parties or events takes valuable time which you no longer need to spend in store. Jump online, order all your items and get everything delivered. It might cost a little extra but when you consider the time factor of physically sourcing everything, trust me, it will be money very well spent.
Now that you’ve got that organised, if the event is at a private residence, head back to the computer and get some decorative signs made up that lead to the toilet and bathroom. Plus, if you have areas you want to keep off limits, put together some no entry signs. Get creative and make up signs for the bar area, coat storage, can and bottle recycling or whatever you like. These will add to the decorations if you spruce them up a bit.
Speaking of decorations, make sure you get these delivered about a week before the event. If the event is in your home, spend some time each night setting the house up. Arrange the bar area with large containers for ice, plastic cups, etc.
Set up the music and speakers. Using an iPod, mobile phone or something similar is easy. Get your playlist together and make sure you have enough tunes to flick on the music before your guests arrive and forget about it. Just a tip, guests may ask for music requests during the party. Unless you want to start being the DJ for the entire event, let them know that the music is preset. If you have a volunteer who is willing to DJ and take requests, that’s great. Allocate the job to them if they are willing.
Now if the party is at home, don’t be too fussy about having a spotless house. It will look a lot worse afterwards. If you are concerned your home isn’t being presented the way you’d like, give it a quick vacuum and dust as you set up. Mopping floors are a waste so don’t bother.
If the event is at a different location, enlist the help of others to assist with decorations and preparations. Ask the facilities staff or management if you can have some time to prepare before the event. Most will agree to allow you limited access so plan decorations which you can set up within that time-frame. If you are having balloons, order a cheap pump with the decorations or opt for helium. Blowing up balloons is time consuming and there are easier ways to make it happen without running out of valuable oxygen!
The night before your party, prep any food which can be done early. Keep it as simple as possible and try not to make extra work for yourself. If possible have a reasonably early night and get a good rest.
The day of your party all that should be left to do is the final food prep. Cook anything which needs cooking, get out serving implements and you should basically be ready for an awesome event. If the event is at a catered facility you won’t have this concern. Spent some time during the day with your feet up relaxing and give yourself plenty of time to have a shower and get yourself ready to receive your guests.
Doing all the preparation prior to your party will really pay off. Instead of being the type of host who is rushing around ignoring guests, you can actually spend time with them and enjoy yourself. Plus, the more entertaining you do, the easier this gets. Save any documents you’ve created on the computer in a separate file and re-use them.
These tips and techniques are ultimately what professional event organisers do everyday. They plan, organise and prepare. It’s that simple! It doesn’t matter if it’s a small gathering like a BBQ, kids party or a big event like a wedding; these guidelines are super flexible.
Good luck and enjoy your festivities!
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With the warm weather headed for Australia, it’s time to bring out the outdoor furniture, clean off the patio and dust off the picnic basket. There are no excuses to stay inside and forego the summer sunshine this year.
When you’re eating outside, a rustic or eclectic style is fitting. If you have an outdoor space, like a patio or a backyard, all it takes is some minimal sprucing to set up a comfortable and chic dining area, whether it’s just you, your family, or a gathering of friends.
Simple, budget-friendly DIY tips
Whether you’re in a rush, on a budget, or you want to keep your sprucing simple, these quick tips are for you!
Furniture and dishes
Dining outside doesn’t require fancy furniture. Previously used indoor furniture can be repurposed and used as outdoor furniture with a fresh coat of paint or some added cushions. Even a wheelbarrow with a board on top or an old workbench can be used as a table.
In place of a tablecloth, use brown (or any colour) paper. It’s easy to clean up, you won’t ruin a tablecloth by using it outdoors, and it adds to the rustic, outdoor vibe. Using one color allows you to keep your tables looking uniform, even if they’re mismatched.
To keep the paper tablecloths from blowing away, use real dishes with some weight. They don’t need to be the same; any dishes in summery colors or floral patterns will add to the eclectic style of the outdoors.
If you need to seat a lot of people, opting for a bench in place of individual chairs can allow you to fit more people. Benches can also be used for multiple purposes – sit them next to a table for a meal, or around a fire pit for cocktails or cooking on the fire.
Antique outdoor furniture is often made of metal, and can be spruced up with a fresh coat of paint, and made both comfortable and modern with an added pillow or cushion.
Privacy and ambiance
If your outdoor space lacks a private patio or yard, or if it doesn’t have the style you want, you can build yourself a private, shady sanctuary with a few simple tools.
A large umbrella not only provides shade from the hot sun, it will also add a pop of colour and inject some of your personal style into your yard.
If you have a yard with neighbours nearby, or a patio that backs up to your home, planting a row of trees, bushes, or potted plants with some lattice can provide a privacy wall without installing a complete fence around your yard.
Sometimes, the heat and sun of the day is intense. Take advantage of the cooler evenings, and instead of running your air conditioning, head outdoors! A string of paper lanterns hung in the trees, or citronella candles can create the ambiance you’re looking for without attracting bugs. Battery operated candles may be a better option if you’re serving cocktails, but citronella candles or a fire may help ward off bugs.
If you have room in your yard or on your patio, a small fire pit or a chiminea can provide light and heat while providing more protection than an open bonfire.
The portable outdoor meal
Whether you’re traveling, short on time, or haven’t updated your outdoor space at home, picnics are a great way to have a portable outdoor meal anywhere, at any time. All you need is a blanket, a bag or basket, and a few simple tools and easy meals.
Remember: Enjoying the summer outdoors are about having fun! Your personal style and DIY spirit is all you need to share a meal with your loved ones out in the fresh air.
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If you love nothing more than unleashing your imagination on a host of art projects and producing an array of wonderful crafts, you might be looking for ways to perfect your skills in 2015. Often, simple ways of improving are overlooked, so here’s how to up your game in three easy steps.
1. Think about your materials and tools
Whether you enjoy etching, painting, crocheting or quilting, it’s essential to look at your tools. Even the most skilled professionals would struggle to make a decent picture with a frayed paintbrush or a cushion out of threadbare material, so choose your equipment carefully and update where necessary. With a wide range of artistic products available online from sites like Homecrafts you’ll find everything you need and more to become a better crafter with high-quality quilling paper and beautiful oil paint being just some of the items on offer.
Moreover, make sure you have everything you need before starting a certain project as you don’t want to run out of wool halfway through knitting a scarf, or run out of bees wax during an afternoon of encaustic art. A bit of forward planning will help you stay organised and allow your artistic talents to flow undisturbed.
2. Research and talk to like-minded people online
No matter how many ideas you have running through your head, it’s always a good idea to carry out a bit of research before committing yourself to an art project. Sure, you might have been knitting for 20 years but with a wealth of patterns, techniques and ideas available via Pinterest and other online community sites such as Ravelry, you might just come across something that piques your interest. What’s more, interacting with likeminded people could also fuel your passion for arts and encourage you to try new and more adventurous things such as crocheting a tablecloth instead of a coaster, or using decoupage to cover a large desk rather than a small jewellery box.
As well as research and finding new ideas, talking to experienced crafters online can also help you overcome artistic hurdles or offer essential help and advice if you get stuck. If there’s a certain stitch you can’t master, for instance, seeking advice from someone who’s done a similar project can really help.
3. Brainstorm, experiment and get out and about
Are you stuck in a rut doing the same old thing time and time again be it cross-stitch, clay-modelling or etching? If so, it might be time to get out and about in search of new ideas. The internet is a great way to fuel the mind but sometimes it’s good to catch some fresh air, visit new places and look for different perspective and approaches. UK art museums are ideal for crafters as they display some of the best work in the world but there’s no harm in just picking up a sketchpad and going for a walk. You might come across something so beautiful that it just has to be painted and that could get your next art project off the ground. Don’t be afraid to brainstorm, to experiment and to make mistakes as this is how many people learn.
There are many ways to hone your skills and become a better crafter, but following these three easy steps will certainly set you off on the right track.
An estimated 116, 000 weddings take place in Australia each year. That equates to a hefty price for postage, for wedding invitations alone! But, of course, every bride would be willing to fork it out to ensure that the best day of her life is complete and utter perfection.
For some brides, the wedding invite acts a teaser for what is to come – it reveals to guests snippets of what to expect, without disclosing everything.
Traditional wedding invites are just that – traditional. No one wants a typical, been-there-done-that wedding invitation! Invites now come in all shapes and sizes, with all sorts of designs. So go on, amaze your guests with these seven wedding invitations that your friends wouldn’t have!
1. 3D pop-up wedding invitations
Stand out with these 3D pop-up cards that are taking the market by storm! 3D Cards is an online store that offers intricate 3D pop-up cards that are laser-cut and then assembled by hand. Your guests will love these innovative and beautifully handcrafted wedding invites!
2. Vintage is in, and so are your invitations
Transform old gadgets into funky invitations, like these classic custom-made View-Master wedding invitations. Your invites will look sentimental and classic, and be a ton of fun for your guests to peek into! They are completely customisable, and so cute!
3. Look beyond the page, try something new
Why not try a new printing technique with your wedding invitations? Many couples are now printing their wedding invites on materials other than paper, such as wood, fabric and even metal! The end result: a super cool wedding invite that looks worthy of being framed!
4. Add a personal touch with DIY invitations
Be quirky and creative, and get started on making your own wedding invitations! Not only will this save you money, but you can also add your own personal flair to it. There are plenty of designs to choose from – vintage, rustic, elegant, and more! This is your chance to showcase your craft skills, and personalise your invitations.
5. Chocolate. Always chocolate
What would be better than receiving an invitation for your friend’s special day? Not much else, except quite possibly receiving an invitation in the form of a chocolate bar! Satisfy your guests’ tummies before they even get to your wedding with these quirky and delicious chocolate bar wedding invites!
6. Useful wedding invites
Let’s be realistic, your wedding invites will most likely end up crinkled and torn in a corner somewhere, or even become a makeshift coffee mug coaster. Put your mind at ease by giving your guests a wedding invite they can use! These awesome invitation boxes unfold to make a candleholder, and provide the guests with all the details of the wedding!
7. Folded map invitations
Do you and your partner both have incurable wanderlust and a constant crave for seeing the world? These beautiful map invites are easy to make and also pretty to look at! Share your love of travelling by customising these invitations with the places you and your partner have been, or even by marking the location of where your wedding will be held.
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Margarita recipes are in abundance, and we all know that tequila and lemon or lime is a match made in heaven, but for such a popular spirit the versatility of tequila is vastly unknown.
Tequila is not just a means for kicking off a party; it can be the whole focus of one, enjoyed as an accompaniment to a delicious meal or incorporated into recipes for those who just can’t get enough. Tequila Blu shares an inspired dinner party menu… the theme? Tequila, of course! Get the party started and wow guests with this delicious three-course menu that incorporates tequila for some added zing!
Entrée – Drunken prawns
2 ½ cups olive oil
¾ cup Tequila Blu
½ cup fresh coriander, chopped
½ cup freshly squeezed lime juice
½ cup pineapple juice
¼ cup white vinegar
1 tbsp garlic salt (or plain rock salt)
1 tbsp ground black pepper
1 tsp seasoned salt
30 prawns, peeled and de-veined
- Combine all ingredients (except the prawns) in a blender and blend until smooth.
- Place prawns in a bowl and cover with the mixture, stir through evenly and allow to marinate for at least two hours
- Over a medium heat, cook the prawns in a frypan until cooked through (10-15 mins approx.)
- Serve and delight guests!
Main – Tequila lime chicken with margarita guacamole
1 cup Tequila Blu
¼ cup olive oil
2 tsp salt
5 cloves of garlic
1 jalapeño, sliced
½ bunch chopped coriander
12 chicken breasts
- Squeeze the juice of 4 limes into a food processor and add tequila, salt, olive oil, jalapeños, parsley and garlic. Blend until combined.
- In a large tray place chicken breasts and tequila-lime mixture, cover and place in fridge overnight to marinate.
- Once marinated, grill chicken over medium to high heat until cooked through. Slice and serve.
For the guacamole…
2 large avocados
Juice and zest of 1 lime
½ tsp. orange zest
3 tbsp. chopped coriander
Salt and pepper to taste
- Scoop out inside of avocados and mash, stir in the rest of the ingredients and serve alongside the chicken.
- You can also serve this dip as an entrée with corn chips!
Dessert – Tequila lime tart
1 ½ cups crushed plain sweet biscuits
¼ cup melted unsalted butter
¼ cup pine nuts
2 tablespoons of sugar
- To make the crust for the tart combine biscuits, butter, pine nuts and sugar in a food processor and blend until it begins to clump together.
- Press the mixture into the base and sides of a 9-inch spring form tart pan.
For the filling…
1 can sweetened condensed milk
Yolks of 4 large eggs
½ cup fresh lime juice
¼ cup Tequila Blu
2 egg whites
1 tbsp sugar
Whipped cream and fresh lime slices to garnish
- Preheat oven to 180 degrees Celsius. Mix condensed milk, egg yolks, lime juice and tequila in a bowl and set aside.
- Whisk egg whites and sugar in a bowl to form soft peaks then gently fold in 1 and a half cups of the condensed milk mixture with a rubber spatula. Fold in the rest of the mixture until just combined.
- Pour mixture into the prepared tart pan and bake for approximately 40 minutes, or until the mixture has fluffed up and a tester inserted into the tart comes out clean.
- Cool completely, then chill until cold.
- Garnish with whipped cream and fresh lime.
- Enjoy the fiesta!
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If you have a child’s birthday coming up but are fresh out of ideas for a party, take a look at these themes for inspiration to create your own unforgettable party.
What little boy (or little girl for that matter) wouldn’t love a pirate inspired birthday party? A black and white striped garland and table cloth would fit the theme perfectly and consider serving the drinks from old rum bottles (labels removed and bottles thoroughly cleaned first). You can purchase black skull and cross bone balloons, party bags and cupcake cases. For a treasure hunt, bury treasure in the garden or sandpit in snaplock bags and mark the spots with an X. Don’t forget to tell you guests to dress up as their favourite pirate too!
If your little princess loves ballet, then a ballet themed party would go down a treat! Use subtle pink and white colours for decorations and purchase tutus to slide over the backs of chairs for a really elegant look. Pink and white striped cupcake cases and ballerina toppers look wonderful for the cupcakes and if you plan on making a birthday cake too, of course make it pink. Tell your guests to dress as ballerinas and even consider getting a tutor in for a short ballet lesson.
Under the sea
An under the sea inspired birthday party would suit either a boy or girl and of course has a blue theme with lots of fishy friends. This whale cake is amazing (and possibly one you may need to get made if you’re not experienced in making cakes) and I love the clam shell idea with the pearls inside (which of course are gumballs or another similar type of candy). Use blue frosting for your cupcakes with little shark fins poking out the top and decorate the room with varying shades of blue crepe paper, twisted slightly for great effect.
For a jungle inspired birthday party, you’ll need lots of green, brown and animal print decorations and party supplies. Purchase an animal piñata, consider paying someone to make an animal themed cake and provide guests with safari hats and toy binoculars when they arrive. Decorate the room with inflatable (or real if you have them) palm trees and all those animal soft toys that you thought would never have any purpose. Consider hiring a reptile handler for the party.
If your little girl loves travel and the finer things in life, this elegant travel themed party could be perfect for her. Give guests their own passport in a pink travel bag, filled with yummy treats and play pin Australia on the world map – a different take on pin the tail on the donkey. You’ll need lots of pink decorations and I particularly love the Eiffel Tower themed party hats and cupcake toppers.
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