Making sure that your family thrives is not an easy job and it’s one that doesn’t come with bells and whistles. Mums don’t get paid for their hard work and they don’t get nominated for awards, but are they at least being appreciated by their families?
Australia Post has just released its Mother’s Day Survey results and nearly 80 per cent of Australians say that mums are the most appreciated member of the family. However, almost 40 per cent have forgotten to buy a Mother’s Day gift at least once, with 9.1 per cent admitting that they forget to buy a gift every year. So much for showing appreciation!
Australians are just as likely to forget to buy a Mother’s Day card, also – 42.6 per cent of all respondents have forgotten to buy a card at least once and 10.5 per cent forget every year. Those who remember to buy gifts often don’t put a lot of effort into it, either, with 43.9 per cent admitting that they’ve bought a gift voucher instead of a thoughtful gift, while 23.4 per cent say they’ve sent the mum in their life to buy her own gift. Some people (5.4 per cent!) admitted to buying a washing basket – that would have to go on the worst ever Mother’s Day gifts list.
Are these numbers making you depressed? Here are some better ways to show your appreciations to the mum in your life:
- Put some effort into figuring out what she’d like and shop early.
- Tell her how much you love her and what you appreciate about her. If you have young kids, ask them to list the things they love about Mum and turn their answers into a card, artwork or a video.
- Spend time with her on Mother’s Day, but also give her some time to herself.
Showing mums how much we appreciate them doesn’t have to be difficult or expensive. It just takes some thought and a loving heart.