It hurts, no matter how you find out.
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You aren’t here and you aren’t with me. And I was an utter fool for you.
Names changed to protect the innocent (and the guilty).
“It’s kinda like ice-cream. Some days you feel like vanilla, other days strawberry, chocolate, or even more than one scoop.”
Infidelity gets two entries in the Ten Commandments, so it must be really bad…right?
I’m always surprised when someone blatantly does the deed in front of me.
As deeply as I loved him, a feeling of relief washed over me when I found out about the affairs.
Infidelity was for assholes. Or so I thought…
Talking to my ex, I kept trying to remind myself that he was the same person he had always been.
“Baby… She won’t find out, I promise. This weekend can be all about you and me,” I overheard him say on the phone.
After I found the messages and told him I was leaving, that’s when it started to get really bad…
On Monday night we don’t sleep well.
Infidelity exposed: the other woman, the cheating husband, and their 25-year affair.
It still haunts me to this day.
I wish I could say that he tricked me, but that wasn’t the case.
I knew what I was doing was wrong. But that wasn’t what scared me.
You need to be honest with yourself.