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January 25, 2017

Bizarre Sex Fetishes: How Far Would You Go To Please Your Lover?

After doing some very intriguing research, I’ve come to the conclusion that not all sex fetishes are created equal. There were 549 different types listed by researcher Anil Aggrawal in 2009. Who knew there were so many sexual fetishes out there? Some are reasonably common like the old foot or lingerie fetish. Then there are some in a whole class of their own.

While I’m not knocking anyone who participates, it does pose the question: How far would you go to please your lover? Before you answer that one you may want to take a look at what some people are actively getting up to. Just goes to show you really don’t know what’s going on behind closed doors!

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Clothing/role play sexual fetishes

    bondage, fetishes, sex, sex advice, sexual fetishes, furries, yiffFurries: This fetish is harmless yet a bit bizarre. Furries dress in animal costumes and take on their characteristics. Instead of stripping off their costume, it’s not uncommon for furries to dry-hump each other or engage in other sexual acts while in costume. This is called Yiffing. I did say it was bizarre!

Pedovestism: This fetish involves dressing as children, either themselves or their lover. While some people say this fetish is pure fantasy which makes it okay, others find it extremely disturbing.

Autonepiophilia aka Infantalism: The fetish of dressing like or imagining oneself being a baby. Wearing nappies and sucking dummies are popular with this one.

Biastophilia: Sexual arousal occurs at the thought of having sex with a non-consenting person. In other words, rape. Regardless of what people think of this fetish, rape fantasy is actually pretty common for both genders.

Sexual fetishes with inanimate objects

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Dendrophilia: I love gardening an nature but it’s hard to believe anyone could be turned on by a tree. Yes, a tree. I suppose if it doesn’t hurt anyone… whose to judge?

Agalmatophilia: Having a fetish for immobile human figures like statues or mannequins. Bring out the blow up doll!

Ursusagalmatophilia aka plushophilia: Teddy bears have a totally different type of attraction for people with this fetish.

Mechanophilia/mechaphilia: We all know that some men seriously love their cars but this is a fetish takes that love to a whole new level! It’s not just cars which turns them on. Apparently this fetish can include others types of machinery as-well.

Hierophilia: Being sexually aroused by sacred or religious items like crosses. It sort of brings a whole new meaning to callling out “Oh my God” during orgasm, doesn’t it?

Forniphilia: Instead of having sex with inanimate objects some people are turned on by pretending to be them. If you’ve ever sat on your partner’s lap have you ever been turned on by the thought of them being an actual chair?

Sexual fetishes involving animals

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Formicophilia: While some people have a fear or creepy crawlies people with this fetish get aroused by the feeling of small insects crawling over them or being bitten.

Zoosadism: Some people get off on watching animals in pain and will inflict pain just to witness their reactions. This fetish also involves the practice of bestiality. This is when humans have sex with live animals. Yes this does happen. It’s believed this practice is so old it dates back to the prehistoric era when dinosaurs shared our planet.

Avisodomy: A fetish to have sex with birds. The flying variety! It brings a whole new meaning to the phrase “she’s a nice looking chick“.

Crushing: While wearing high heeled stilettos some women will crush objects underfoot to turn on their lover. That’s relatively harmless but unfortunately sometimes the objects they crush include small animals.

Oral sexual fetishes

 

Oculolinctus aka worming: Achieving sexual arousal by licking someone’s eyeball.

Sitophilia: Sexual food play sounds reasonably tame but it can also involve Salirophilia. This fetish is when willing participants get turned on by getting covered in food or other substances including blood and feces.

Vorarephilia: This fetish was made infamous when a German man chopped, cooked and ate a willing participant. This bizarre fantasy surrounds being eaten, swallowed whole or eating others. It sounds very much like several species of female spiders who devour their mate after having sex with them.

Bodily function-type sexual fetishes

 

Hypoxyphilia or erotic asphyxiation: Lovers who like to control the breathing of their partner. It can be deadly but it’s said to make for an amazing orgasm!

Urolagnia: This fetish has to do with urine or urinating. There are variations of this fetish including clothes wetting, exhibitionism (desperate to go or wetting yourself in public), human urinal (aka golden shower) when a person wants their lover to pee on them or inside them during or after sex, omorashi (intentionally holding on or making someone wait to urinate. How painful!), pussing (male watching female urinate in public toilets. Sneaking into the public toilet is said to be half the fun!), voyeurism (watching urination through peel holes). Some of these fetishes are more common than others and apparently the golden shower is a popular one with the ladies.

Liquidophelia: Sexual arousal occurs when genitals are submerged in liquid. Can involve urolagnia.

Emetophilia aka roman shower: Vomit usually turns people green but some people get off on witnessing it or enjoy vomiting on their partner before of after sex.

Eproctophilia: Who’d have thought farting, mainly female farting could be a turn on?

Coprophilia: A fetish for feces. Salirophilia is popular as it consuming it. Enough said.

Mucophilia: Some people are very turned on by mucus.

Menophilia: While most men avoid the topic of menstruation, some men get off on thought, sight, smell or even the taste of a menstruating woman.

Necrophilia: Death is a natural process but fantasising about having sex with the dead is reserved for especially people with this fetish.

So, just how far would you go to please your lover? You’d better find out what if there are any sexual fetishes lurking before answering that one!

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March 12, 2015

4 Creatively Sexy Ideas Using Handcuffs

If you have a pair of handcuffs and looking to spice up your sex life, we have 4 creative & sexy ideas for sex with handcuffs! They are fast becoming a default sex toy for couples. The issue with such widespread use is that couples have probably role played them to death in the bedroom.

There are only so many times you can be cuffed to a bed post before it gets a little stale. Coming up with something new and exciting might be a bit tricky. Maybe that’s why bondage and sales of bondage toys are on the rise? (Hmmm… that’s another conversation.) Anyway, assuming the bedroom has probably been fully explored, lets consider the rest of the house and see if we can come up with something new for you.

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Look but don’t touch

Now the bathroom usually has a towel rack or something similar. So do kitchens. Handcuff both hands together and tease your partner while you take a seductive shower, do a strip tease or masturbate in front of him. Being cuffed to the wall will ensure they look, but don’t touch. This one will drive him absolutely crazy because men are so visual. When you’re ready, un-cuff him and let him join in.

Behind the door

Some doors have coat racks or something similar attached to hang items. Why not make that item your partner! Put both hands in cuffs and slide the center links over the door. Depending on their height it might be a bit of a stretch, so women can be hoisted up onto their partner, arms in the air, and he can take control. It can be done either facing toward or away from the door. The door behind you will provide resistance and some support. Alternately use the door nob if the hanger is just too high. It won’t have the same effect but it will provide another experience.

If you want to try the hanger, you can get portable versions which are held in place when the door shuts. If you want to add to the excitement, why not hook one over the front door and hope someone comes knocking.

Stairs

If you have stairs and a pair of handcuffs you’re in luck, providing they reach around the area you’re being cuffed to. Get your man to cuff you to the stairs while you kneel on the steps. If they aren’t carpeted, improvise so you don’t end up with scuffed knees. One hand will need to be free for you to balance. When he’s ready, he can enter from behind. If you wear a skirt or dress without underwear, he won’t be able to resist for long, particularly if you tease him!

Sex in the shower/bath/spa

Some handcuffs have been made with suction cups especially for use in water or resistance against most porous surfaces including tile, glass, cars and even wood. They resist any pulling or struggling and can be placed around the wrist or ankles.

If you want to give these a try, get your partner to position you exactly where they want you or vice-versa. The suction actually makes it safer to have sex in the shower, bath or spa, plus gives you both something a little extra to hold onto. As they can be used on many different surfaces, why not try attaching to the fridge or maybe the washing machine while it’s vibrating. Get creative and don’t forget car bonnets, widows, doors and anything else you discover works.

Lastly, don’t forget the portability of the humble handcuff. If you want to take these outside or even out in public (providing you don’t get caught!) it will give you another experience. Don’t just limit sex with handcuffs to the bedroom, explore and get creative!

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January 22, 2015