5 Ways To Rediscover Your Sex Goddess

Has your mojo pulled a disappearing act this winter? I hate to go all EL James on you and start talking about God-awful-sounding “inner goddesses dancing”, as per Fifty Shades of Grey, but there are some simple ways to bring your sexy back, even if your inner sex goddess has well and truly gone AWOL.

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  1. Pamper thyself: A long-forgotten 11th biblical commandment, especially befitting working mums (busy women in general, actually) is to take the time to soothe your ills, whatever and whichever way you can, time permitting. Need a facial or a massage – nay, the whole goddam beauty menu – to destress and feel sexy once more? Do it – with no guilt whatsoever. I’m also a big believer in the power of shopping for a good high heel and/or a red lipstick – whatever blows your hair back, sister.
  2. Flick the bean: Any sexologist worth their weight in sex toys will tell you masturbation is good for your health – it’s even good for your hair, dammit! OK, I may have made that last one up. But you get the picture: a good solo sex session will put colour in your cheeks, make you feel sexier and more alive; reduces stress and PMS; and is even said to help combat chronic back pain. Sold!
  3. You gotta keep movin’: What’s your fave way to work up a sweat? No matter if it’s trampolining, dwarf throwing or shopping at a sale – get your pretty arse moving for those much-needed feel-good endorphins in winter. Hell, as good sex session even counts as exercise, right?
  4. Laugh like a drain: I’m a big believer in this one – laughter really is the best medicine for a troubled soul – so spend some time with your beloved besties, add a good cocktail or two to warm those winter cockles – and you’ll feel more like your old, sexy self in no time. In addition, there’s nothing like a man who can make you laugh – now that’s sexy! In fact, a clever and funny man may just be the ticket to charm your clothes right off and help unleash your sex-goddess-in-hiding.
  5. Poppin’ bottles in the ice: Lost your mojo? Find it fast with these decadent aphrodisiacs: oysters, red wine, hot chilli, champagne (OK, this one might just be me), asparagus, avocado and chocolate. These babies are scientifically proven to boost your sex life, so get your freak back on, girlfriend!

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June 25, 2015

February Sexy Reads

February sexy reads
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Sex in the City: The Essential Guide to Dating and Sex for Modern Women
Lisa Sussman
Carlton Books $45.00

This book is not your run of the mill “how to have great sex” it is more like those off the record chats you have with your best girlfriend, you know the ones after a few wines when you really discuss what goes on between the sheets at your place? This book let’s loose about dating, love and sex for single, modern chicks. If you want hints on “how to know if your good in bed” with tips like “There are three essential rules to being good in bed: 1. Enthusiasm, don’t just lie there, moan, giggle, wriggle and beg for more.2. Use lots of spit. 3. Don’t bite his penis (nips, yes; teeth never!) And a whole chapter on the rules of the new modern mating games There is even over 40 pages devoted to the sacred organism! So rush out and buy this book if you feel your sex life needs a little sizzle to it this summer!

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How to be a Sex Goddess – Unleash the Power Within
Sarah Tomczak
Macmillan $22.95
“How to be a Sex Goddess” will teach you how to love your body, cultivate your mind, and charm every guy you meet. It will not only change the way others see you, it will change the way you see yourself!
This helpful little book will teach you how to bring out all the characteristics of a classic sex goddess – confidence, grace, strength, humor, charm, loyalty and intelligence. If this all seems a bit much for you, don’t worry this book outlines how it is possible to be all that & more! Think Sophia Loren, Salma Hayek, Audrey Hepburn, Halle Berry and of course Marilyn Monroe, the most glamorous sex goddesses of our time.

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February 6, 2004