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8 Things To Do Together As A Couple In The New Year

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Turn up the heat! It’s time to spice up your sex life. 

26 Hacks To Make A Long-Distance Relationship Last

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4 Unexpected Ways My Relationship Changed After A Year Of Marriage

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I Saw A Different Side Of Myself When I Was In A Long-Distance Relationship

I chose consciously to never enter a relationship where distances were involved.

7 Love Hacks That Could Save Your Broken Marriage

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If You’re Not Excited About Your Relationship, You Owe It To Yourself To Walk

What if you stopped trying to talk yourself into something that doesn’t feel right?

This Is The Kind Of Man You Should Wait For

Anyone else is just wasting your time.

This Is What Makes A Guy Want To Keep Dating You

So there was this guy (isn’t there always?)…

11 Ways To Stop A Man From Pulling Away From You

 Distance really can make the heart grow fonder.

If Your Husband Is Your Best Friend, You’re Screwed

Maybe it’s the term ‘best friend’ that’s the trouble.

8 Reasons To Start Watching Porn

You won’t believe the benefits it can have.

Ask Kim: Is He Just Not That Into Me?

SHESAID resident psychologist Kim Chartres answers your most awkward and confronting questions.

Ask Kim: Am I Having An Emotional Affair?

SHESAID resident psychologist Kim Chartres answers your most awkward and confronting questions.

Ways To Nurture Your Long-Term Relationship

Anyone who has ever been in a long-term relationship will tell you that they often lose their spark. Couples find themselves doing the same things over and over again. They eat the same foods, visit the same places, make love in the same old positions and over time they put less effort into their relationship than they do into raising the kids, working and just about everything else.

RELATED: 10 Ways To Reignite That Honeymoon Spark

It’s totally understandable – life is damn hectic! Finding time for each other can be really tricky. But couples need to think of their relationship as if it were living, breathing, growing, evolving organism. Just like a plant. Without any attention they won’t survive. They’ll simply wither and die.

Obviously, no-one wants that to happen. Break-ups are difficult, painful experiences. Instead, couples want a thriving, passionate, loving partnership. So it’s just a matter of giving it the attention it needs to make that happen. Here’s a few suggestions to give you an idea of where to start:

Find time to talk and listen to each other. Not about the kids, finances or mundane day-to-day living – that stuff saps us of our life force and our libidos. Instead, talk about things that you’re passionate about, things that worry you, and the type of things that you talk to yourself about. Share all these thoughts with your partner. This will bring you much closer if they know what you’re thinking and vice-versa.

Say “I love you” every-single-day. Verbalise how important your partner is to you. Sometimes we assume they know, but in reality, they need to hear it.

Plan to have dirty weekends away. OFTEN! If you can’t afford to go away, then organise some dirty weekends at home. Switch off the technology, get the kids taken care of, walk around the house naked, and make some time just for the two of you.

Get a bucket list together of things you’d both like to see and do. Research things together and most importantly, devise a plan to make it happen!

Go out on dates with other couples. Particularly on that you find interesting and fun. It’s incredible how much you’ll discover about your partner when your’re in good company.

Include laughter into your life on a daily basis. Watch comedies, go to see live stand up and play practical jokes on each other.

Share the load. Prepare meals together, share house-hold chores and make each others life easier.

Surprise your partner. It could be with small tokens of affection or doing something special for them like organising a night out. We all know how nice it is to receive flowers or gifts for no reason.

Join a community group. Do this together to fill your lives with purpose. It could be a sport, hobby, or interest group.

Encourage each other to have a rich and fulfilling life as an individual. If your partner is a happy and satisfied person, this will lead to less relationship problems in the long run.

Do as much as you can together. And enjoy each others company. Why? The more time you spend together, the harder it will be to live without each other. This is so important during times when you argue and when you might feel as if you need some time apart. However, missing each others company and presence will ultimately reunite you.

Never lose sight of love. Never forget why you fell in love with your partner in the first place.

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