Sex-appeal

17 Stages Of Hating Your BFF’s New Boyfriend

Seriously, I thought she had better taste.

May 2, 2016

I’m Body-Shamed For Wearing The Same Things As Skinny Girls

My well-endowed ‘assets’ attract negative attention.

March 29, 2016

I Use My Looks To Get Ahead. Is That A Crime?

Pretty is as pretty does…

January 7, 2016

Rafael Nadal, Tommy Hilfiger And That Underwear Campaign

With the US Open just around the corner, the world’s tennis elite have flocked to New York City to for the final grand slam of the year. However, amidst the frantic last-minute training sessions and nervous pre-tournament press conferences, one tennista is attracting more attention than the others. Former world number 1, Rafael Nadal, has recently been announced as the brand ambassador for Tommy Hilfiger, and the promotion has been a little…interesting.

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Although Rafa promotes the snappy suits and the new Tommy Hilfiger Bold fragrance, the focus is (of course) on the underwear range. When visualising sports stars and their generic underwear campaigns, the mind goes straight to the likes of David Beckham. He’s usually photographed in black and white, posing semi-seductively, face and body shrouded in shadow. The photos, while somewhat sexualised, do not come close to the almost pornographic imagery of female swimsuit and lingerie models. Don’t even start on the objectification of actresses when they promote anything and everything; right down to the last tube of foundation.

However, Tommy Hilfiger has well and truly flipped this sexist double standard on its head. This particular underwear promotion involves a three pronged attack. Firstly; the photo-shoot. It’s done in mostly bold colour, it’s very suggestive, and has a keen focus on Rafa’s extraordinary legs and booty, rather than the more conventional abs/biceps shot (although they certainly get a look in!).

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Curious yet? It gets even more fascinating. The second prong was featured yesterday in Bryant Park; a promo event with a twist. Rafa and a number of Hilfiger models (both male and female) took to a red, white, and blue court (Tommy Hilfiger’s signature colours) to play a game of strip-tennis. The rules were simple (and obvious); lose a point…lose an item of clothing. The idea was to eventually reveal the entirety of the Tommy Hilfiger range, bit by tantalising bit. Although Rafa fared better than the models, he lost the jacket, shirt, and tie of his new elastic suit; just enough to keep the fans happy, but still leaving something to the imagination.

Finally, the third tier that has everybody talking. Earlier this week, Tommy Hilfiger released a 30 second TV commercial featuring Rafa, his undies, and a locker room. It can only be described as a striptease worthy of Gypsy Rose Lee. Slowly, Rafa pulls off his shirt, jeans, and eventually his underwear, tosses his briefs at the camera, and saunters out of the room wearing nothing but a thin white towel. Just before he uncovers ‘everything’, the camera cuts to his face. He throws us a truly smouldering look, shakes his head, and turns away. That shake of the head must have broken a million hearts. What a tease.

Although this commercial is clearly a health hazard because it induces breathlessness and chronic fits of the giggles, it shines a new and surprisingly feminist light on the industry of underwear. Rather than the coy, casual imagery of every other undies campaign, Rafael Nadal, in all his Spanish glory, is teased, stripped, and objectified at the very same standard that women are held to.

There is nothing macho about it; no attempt to preserve the reserved/uptight masculine sexuality we are so used to. This is Rafa plus underwear plus raw sex appeal. As Glee star Jane Lynch put it, while hosting the strip-tennis match, it is “reverse sexism”.

But wait; there’s more! In addition, to showing off Rafa’s body in the same way a woman’s would be, Tommy Hilfiger has also moved a step closer to eliminating the standard of hetero-normativity in advertising. Obviously, the ad is aimed at straight men; they all (hopefully) wear undies. However, the overtly sexualised aspect; the portrayal of a male wearing very little clothing is clearly not aimed at women…they don’t wear men’s Tommy Hilfiger briefs (although some of them might after seeing the commercial).

If the global standard of heterosexuality were observed, Rafa would be in the usual Beckham-esque pouty poses. However, the seductive music accompanying the exposure of Rafa’s stunning body plus the steamy glance at the camera is also aimed at homosexual men. Rather than ignoring gay sexuality, this commercial takes it by the horns and uses it as an advertising tool. It’s the same as using women’s sexualised bodies to lure straight men into buying pretty much any product.

Maybe Tommy Hilfiger has dared to be so raunchy because of the European thing; the Spanish are, after all, a bit more comfortable with sexuality than North Americans and Australians. Maybe he subverted the idea of male sexualisation in this way simply to grab our attention. Hey; maybe it was Rafa’s idea. Either way, with or without realising it, Hilfiger has made quite possibly some of the most heartening progress in terms of eliminating the screaming double standard in male vs. female sexualisation. It even has its own hashtag; #tommyxnadal. So thank you, Tommy, for this (quite honestly) ground-breaking campaign. You and Rafa have given us all hope. And speaking of Rafa; it’s fairly certain that his support for the US Open has exploded spectacularly. Let’s hope he wins. As they say in Spain; vamos!

Images via Ilovefashionnews.nl and Mallorcaadiario.com

August 27, 2015

Does Your Name Make You Sexy?

On a scale of one to sexy, how would you rate the name Scarlett? The sexiest of course, well according to a recent report, that is. Popular blog, Baby Name Wizard conducted a five-year study that asked users to choose and rate among 40,000 names the ones they found most alluring – and it seems, ladies, that Scarlett tops the list.

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Scarlett came in at number one, with Nicolette, Natalia and Anais following, while Gertrude, Bertha and Agnes topped the least sexy list. For the lads, (queue tongue roll) Allessandro was voted the sexiest name in the world, while Lorenzo, Rhett and Romeo trailed. For all the Bobs, Ernests and Normans out there, the study revealed you were the less likely to ignite a fire in someone’s heart by coming in last on the sexy scale. Chin up, fellas!

So what’s in a name and why does it make you so much more darn sexier? “More than half the names on the sexy lists end in the classic gender markers o and a,” founder Lauren Wattenberg wrote on her blog. She also noted that doubled letters seemed to amp up a names sex appeal, such as Giuliana and Dimitri which both made the sexy cut.

A prominent trend amongst the popular names was their French and Italian origin, which Wattenberg said is because they are associated with romance: “That romantic image goes back not just to film heartthrobs like Fernando Lamas and Rudolph Valentino, but all the way back to Shakespeare.”

And as for why a name didn’t have a sexy ring came down to it being old and boring, put quite simply. Most of the names on the unsexy list had their peak in the late 1800s and today lacked excitement, wrote Lauren. “The names are all plain-spoken with heavy sounds,” she said.

Now before you go to extremes and change your name, keep in mind the results are based on ratings from from Namipedia visitors, the majority of who were female. “It’s certainly possible that an all-male panel would choose differently,” wrote Wattenberg.

Image via Tagxedo

February 26, 2015