The most important thing about phone sex is imagination and fun. It is not meant to be like homework, something you sweat over, although sweating is good if you can manage it! You and your partner will need to be able to enter the world of make-believe together. At first, this can feel silly and even confusing. How do you strike up a sexual conversation without feeling dumb? How do you know what to say next? Probably, the easiest thing to do is to ask your partner what their sexual fantasies are. Then on the telephone you can act them out.
Maybe pretending to have him kidnap you from your home and making you his sex slave. This could mean talking out your last sexual encounter that the two of you had together, or want to have together. Also, try directing the other person to touch him/herself. You can alter the speed, location or stroke of their touch. Let them be your hands and simply let them tell ‘your hands’ what to do when. Talk the other person through a complete sexual fantasy. If you still have no idea of what to do, try using the teacher-student relationship fantasy. The role of the student is to ask the teacher for help in learning an assignment. The teacher’s role is to teach the student and of course correct his or her work.
What are you waiting for? Pick up the phone right now!